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Fun and Games

There is a lot of hard work that goes on at the Lazy J Ranch – but there’s also time for fun and games! From fishing to driving the side-by-side to saddle surfing, there’s always something to do.

The horses have been a fun addition to the ranch. We are trying our best to spoil Spirit and Charley the best we can. We’re learning about feeding, shoeing, and brushing the horses. We’ve ridden some, but it has been so hot that we didn’t want to stress them. (I told you we were spoiling the horses!)

We were told to be aware that sometimes horses and cows don’t get along in the same pasture, but we haven’t experienced that. The new calves were curious about the horses the first time they were in the pasture together and the horses were very patient with the calves.

The calves are interested when we go to the barn to feed the horses. Big Boy and some of the cows greeted me outside the barn when I went to feed the horses one morning. The calves decided to investigate what was going on inside the stall gates. Then, Skipper and Rocky Raccoon decided to play hide and seek from around the corner of the barn with me. Rocky likes to go out and greet Charlie for ear scratches and head rubs.

It’s fun to be able to interact with the animals and share these experiences with family and friends. Taking photos are something I like to do to share fun times and new things that we’ve learned along the way. Selfies are always fun with the herd and horses!

We work hard and we play hard here at the ranch and we love it!

Memorial Day Fishing

What better way to enjoy Memorial Day than by spending time fishing. Here are some photos from our afternoon at the pond. (You can click on the photos for a larger view.)

The cows and Big Boy didn’t seem impressed with our fishing efforts since we didn’t have any cow candy to share with them.

A Season for Everything

As the book of Ecclesiastes says: “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” So many things happened here on the ranch after the last post back in May. There was “a time to be born and a time to die.” We discovered that two more of our original five heifers were bred and there were hopes that they would give Genesis (#1 calf) some siblings. Unfortunately, #60 (yes, that’s what we called her) had difficulty with her birth of a bull calf. He was simply too large for her to give birth to. We thought we could save her and we did our best doctoring her for a few days, but she decided the journey back to health was too long and hard. She was under a tree close to the house and we stayed with her for many hours. Even Shadow would go out and lay down with her. She simply closed her eyes and went to sleep. Then just a bit later, the third heifer went into labor and had issues. Charlie and Jason stayed with her until the early morning hours when she hid herself in one of the thickets. We found her the next morning and unfortunately she had lost her calf – another bull calf. She had an injured back leg but we were able to nurse her fully back to health. Melissa was here that weekend also to help out with #64. (Yes, that was her name.) It was a true team effort! We learned a lot about the bulls that you choose to breed your cows, breeding heifers, and breeding cows and have made plans to go a different direction when the next breeding cycle begins. We also learned the value of hiring an experienced and knowledgeable cowboy. Cowboy James taught us so many things about taking care of a sick cow with his know-how and his compassion.

Since the last post in May, the first five bred cows that Charlie bought have calved and the five calves that he bought have grown. They all have names because that makes it easy for me to keep track of them…and it’s fun! So much has happened since May, but I like to divide the posts by year so I can create a book from them. While this will be the ‘official’ last post for our second year on the ranch, there is much more to share. Stay tuned!

Here are some photos to enjoy so you’ll know the names of the calves too! (Click on each photo and it will pull up a larger image!)

Growing Genesis

FB_IMG_1547934337402Genesis the Calf is a little over two months old now. She is growing and changing every day. It’s amazing to see how she knows what to do and how herd protects and nurtures her along with her mama. FB_IMG_1547934363255Within hours of being born, she was wandering the pasture with the rest of the herd. Even now, she walks or runs a bit and needs to lay down and rest; but she is getting stronger every day. She learned quickly that alfalfa hay was a yummy treat. 0210191601_Burst01She also learned that she was the short one in the crowd and she often winds up with hay dust all over her head and back. 0210191609fIt took a bit for her to figure out what the mineral cubes were all about, but now she likes being able to chew on them. When Charlie starts up the side by side, all of the cows come running to the fence hoping for a treat and Genesis is now the one leading the herd!

She likes lining up at the fence, and just like her mama, she is beginning to let us rub her head. She likes to lick our fingers and when we talk to her!

While she was born with jet black fur, 0216191118oher coat is beginning to have a reddish sheen. Mama Cow was bred when we bought her and we are not certain if the bull was a black or red Brangus. As Genesis continues to lose her winter coat, we will be able to see what her true coloring will be. The red is most visible around her nose and chest right now.

We were hoping that she would have a calf-playmate sooner. It appears that #63 is going to be the next to give birth, but we’re still waiting. Genesis is waiting too. Can you see her in the background? Hopefully, we’ll have another birth announcement to share soon!



Winter Weekend Camp 2019

Winter Camp took place at the Wheeler Ranch with Maddie and Gianna staying here for a long weekend. The first day had such pleasant weather! DSCF6790Jason and Raya came over to visit and work with the cows. I walked out onto the front porch and this is what I saw.

While we were waiting for our hay bales to arrive, Charlie bought some alfalfa which the cows really like! He and Jason decided to give the herd a treat this morning so Raya and Gianna could help take care of the cows.

While Gianna was very comfortable working with the cows, Raya decided that she needed to stay in the back of the side by side.

Raya was very curious about the herd until Mama Cow came to visit!

Gianna learned what a ‘cow stick’ is and how to use one this weekend. We may have a future veterinarian on our hands!

I think Shadow and Genesis are curious about each other because they are about the same size. Although, Genesis is quickly outgrowing Shadow! They get close to each other…but not TOO close!

Genesis the calf was very curious about the empty mineral bucket that day. She nosed it and nudged it until she turned it on its side and she could roll it around. After all of the exercise, she needed a nap on the hay.

DSCF6871Maddie wasn’t as interested in the cows this trip. Instead, she wanted to explore the creek and she wanted Kimmie to hike and explore with her. The weather on Day 2 of Winter Weekend Camp was not as pleasant as Day 1. In fact, it was completely brutal!

We bundled up and headed to the creek. Gianna went on the adventure with us also – sporting another one of our UH beanies! The bright red makes it easy for me to spot the grandkids when they are out roaming! Shadow was not going to be left behind!

She loves when the grandkids come to visit! I cannot even begin to say how many layers of clothes that I had on! I felt like the blueberry kid in Willy Wonka or the little brother in Christmas Story!

It is pretty easy to make it down the creek since most of the foliage has lost its leaves. Unfortunately, thorns do not fall off of branches in the winter!

There is a rope bridge that the girls discovered last summer. They didn’t need it to cross the creek during the summer, but it certainly helped with water in the creek!

We found the spot where Maddie and Emory buried a Barbie in the creek bed. Well, she thinks we found it. DSCF6853The creek was pretty dry during the summer when they buried their treasure. She thinks this is the spot of the ‘buried treasure.’ Maybe Maddie and Emory can check it out this summer.



As we crossed the creek, we found another treasure – the herd!

They seemed to be very curious as to why we would be crossing THEIR creek! Gianna and I walked over to ‘talk’ with ‘the ladies.’ We were having a very informative talk about bovines. Of course, Shadow was with us! Then it was time for more creek exploration.


I’m not sure what this made this burrow in the creek bed, but we quickly walked by.

And then it was time for some competition between the girls. Who would come to the end of the tree line at the creek first?


Maddie and I continue to hike down the creek but Gianna went to Grandad who had come to check on us. I think she was recruiting him for her team! She crossed the creek and brought him back to us. DSCF6886Maddie kept forging ahead until she broke the tree line. She was so proud of herself and wanted me to take a victory shot of her!

When it was time to head back to the house, the cows followed us home! DSCF6890Notice Charlie’s layered clothing. It was seriously wet and cold that day! As we started back, we noticed the calf was left behind at the creek. Charlie, Gianna, and Shadow went to check on her. Charlie showed Gianna how to split up and each of them walk Genesis back toward the front of the pasture. The calf made it to the road and trotted away from them. Shadow took over then and drove her back to the rest of the

herd. I wonder what the cows were thinking. They were not bothered at all with all of the commotion. Maybe Mama Cow was telling Genesis that’s what happens when you don’t stay close to me!

Maddie wasn’t wild about feeding the cows mineral cubes so I had her be our photographer. I’m not sure why she doesn’t like having minerals mixed with cow slobber all over her hands! Gianna certainly doesn’t mind cow drool, cow snot, and methane gas. I think I look like a giant raspberry – but the cows don’t seem to mind as long as I share ‘cow candy’ and rub their foreheads!

It was an extremely cold weekend. We’re all getting tire of wearing rain boots and walking on mushy ground. Spring must be around the corner though. The robins have flown north and the daffodils and narcissus in the pastures are in full bloom.

Maddie’s Gallery

I gave Maddie my camera for part of our hike to take photos and she did a really good job! Here are some of her photos.

The Dog Days of Summer

While there are many things that need to be taken care on the ranch, it is simply too hot outside. I guess you could say we are in the maintenance state – mowing the grass around the house and tending the small garden early in the morning. Our list of things to do is growing but Fall will be here soon and it will be more conducive to cleaning fence lines, trimming trees, working in the pastures, renovating the chicken coop, and painting the fence.

We have been keeping busy though with other activities that we can relegate when we want to inside and outside Here are our top 10 dog day summer activities:

  1. Buy a Truck: Charlie needed a ranch truck. When we moved to the country, we sold my cute little sporty coupe. She just wasn’t going to do well on these caliche rock roads. We’ve been a one car (truck) family since the middle of April. This wasn’t such a big deal until we started having separate activities in town. Charlie started looking for a used, well-taken care of ranch truck.0810180639.jpgHe and Jason looked through a multitude of social media sites and Charlie finally found one in Karnack, Texas. It’s a nice Ford F-350 already with a diesel tank in the bed of the truck! We had to drive several hours to get there to check it out but what we found made it worth the trip. Low mileage, excellent condition, and formerly used as a truck to check on dozer jobs the owner had going. Jason came and helped Charlie put a filter on the diesel tank and then they went and filled it up – 100 gallons of diesel! Finally, we’re a two-vehicle family again.
  2. Kimmie’s Cow Candy: It is our goal to have cows and heifers that are accustomed to being around us to make it easier when we need to handle them. We began by having hay on the side by side when we would go check out the pasture and we’d drop some hay off for them. Then, we began holding the hay and they would eat it out of our hands. Next step was to train them with candy. No, not real candy but that’s what I like to call it. 0718181851bIt’s actually mineral cubes that I put in a small tin bucket that I have. We go out on the porch and if they are close I holler “Hello girls” and they all perk up their ears and start watching us. Then we walk over to the fence and give them some candy. Again, at first, we dropped it on the ground so they knew what it was. Now, most of “the girls” will eat it out of our hands.
  3. Day Trips: Charlie and I have taken two days trips into East Texas so far to explore our new surroundings and landmarks. The first trip we drove up to Lindale (The Cannery Entertainment Center with the Love and War Music Arena which have ties with Miranda Lambert and East Texas Country Music) and back through Tyler (the Rose Garden, of course) and Rusk. The Heritage Museum in Rusk was closed so we walked down to the Mexican Restaurant on the Town Square and had lunch. On the way home we stopped at the Caddo Mounds and explored the sites there.

    The second trip we drove up to Caddo Lakes Wildlife Refuge at Karnack to see the lake and swamps (no wildlife). It was an interesting place since it had originally been a privately-owned facility that made TNT for the Army. The next stop heading back to Lovelady was the Train Depot and Museum in Marshall. In Carthage we stopped at the Texas Country Music Hall of Fame and then drove through Nacogdoches to head home. We have put lots of miles on the truck for these two trips but it’s been great learning more about this part of Texas.

  4. Fruit Trees & Preserves: After the blueberries were gone, the figs ripened and we picked several batches of them. Some Charlie ate fresh from the tree and the others I tried my hand at making strawberry fig jelly. The first batch was really messy – well, I was really messy. It was fun though so I tried a second batch after I bought a new canning pot with all of the canning utensils that I needed (and more.) After having fun with fig preserves, I decided to try pear preserves.

    Charlie picked some pears for me and I made one batch of pear preserves with pears, sugar and fresh lemons. After I found another recipe, I went out and picked some more pears. This recipe had LOTS of sugar, nutmeg, cinnamon, and allspice. Basically, these are spiced pears! I’ve even been looking at a local nursery to see about planting some peach, plum, and maybe cherry trees in the Fall. Just an idea…

  5. Gardening: I couldn’t resist putting in a small (very small) garden this year. It was late April so I was limited in what I could plant. The soil here is sandy and something that I’ve never experienced before. We have always had clay soil where we lived – gumbo as it is called. Even though it was late in the season, I put in a few tomatoes and peppers but didn’t keep up with my watering as well as I needed to so they didn’t do vey well and I finally let them go. The okra seeds however have sprouted and are beginning to produce nicely. My goal is to have enough to pickle but so far we’ve only have a few pods to harvest.

Now let’s talk about the melon patch! I’ve never really had luck with watermelons before but with lots of space and sandy soil (which they like), I decided to experiment. I chose three varieties of melons to plant and two varieties of cantaloupes. This has really worked out well since the watermelons have been ready to harvest at different time. The Klondikes (the large oval striped ones) still have a way to go since they were the last to fruit and are larger to grow. The smaller round ones (striped and solid green) have been harvested with more on the vine. The cantaloupes had lots of flowers but are just now really producing fruit. There is one that is so close to harvest time that I can hardly wait. So far, the melons we have harvested have been so sweet. There is such a feeling of accomplishment for me to know that I planted those tiny seeds, took care of them when they sprouted, tended them as they flowered and fruited, and then harvest and eat them.

  1. Camp Kimmie and GranDad: We’ve been able to have all of the grandkids over at different times this summer. We’ve had birthday parties, family dinners, and family coming in to visit.

    We even had two of the younger ones spend the night with us and they (we) did great!

    Benjamin helped Charlie drive the tractor, feed the cows and drive the ‘truck’ (which is what he calls the side by side). Scarlett and GranDad were up a little later than Benjamin and I one morning, so they had to wait on the porch while Benjamin and I were driving around in our PJs! After bath time, they sat on the front porch with us eating pop tarts!

    The big girls were able to spend about a week here also and we had lots of fun.

  2. Cattle Schools: Learn more about our herd and building it in size. We attended the Cattle Short Course at Texas A&M again. It was a little different for us this year. Last year almost everything was new to us. Our experience with cattle was limited to being around those that were on our property from the fellow leasing the pastures. It’s different now that we have five head of our own. Some of the information from the professors from TAMU was the same as last year but it had a more personal meaning this year. We had questions based on what we doing and what we needed to do that we can ask the presenters. We also had a better feel of which sessions to attend and were probably a bit more judgmental of the skills of the presenters. The focus on the last day of the Short Course is always on hands on demonstrations. 0808180959aLast year, we watched how to handle and move cattle, give shots, brand, and castrate. This year we went to the carcass demonstration. Yes, carcass! We watched videos of four different cattle and graded them on their appearance and potential beef yield. Then they brought the carcasses into the classroom! The next part of the presentation was a cow that had been butchered. 0808181039aThe professor had a skeleton of a cow and would place each cut of meat on the skeleton as he described how it was cut, where it came from AND how to cook it. Very interesting. We have also been attending local workshops put on by the Houston County Extension Office. These sessions have been on forage of the pastures, feeding and caring for the cattle, feral hogs, and pond management.
  3. Nightly Wildlife Checks: Each night we go out and check for wildlife. You can always hear birds singing, but now we hear the cicadas and frogs making noise. We still have evidence of an armadillo or two but we’re not seeing them as much. Occasionally we see cottontails in the early evening or morning. We had a single boar a few weeks ago that was rutting around. Jason brought his rifle with a new night vision scope on it and now we do not have a boar under the pear trees. Instead, we have deer. The deer have been more active lately. Sometimes we see two big bucks and other times we see a group of does and fawns together. One night this week the entire herd was in the pasture close to the house. They tend to come close in the evening and then again in the early morning. WGI_0011Several nights ago when I went out with the spotlight, I found two does bedded down under one of the trees right next to the fence close to the house and some of the others under the pear trees eating the pears that had fallen to the ground. We may have to put some corn out for them so they will stay close enough for us to see them every evening and morning. Last night Charlie spotted two hogs close to the pear trees. It may be hog hunting time tonight!
  4. Train the Animals: Mia Bella is getting up in years and has always been an inside cat. In the city, she might go out to sit on the patio and chase a lizard to two. At first, she would come out to the back porch while we sitting having our morning coffee but then go right back in the house. Then she started going to the front porch to sit with us. Now she runs to the front door after breakfast and dinner so she can go out to the front porch, down the steps, and chase crickets and grasshoppers in the grass. She has also discovered Shadow’s hiding spot in the cool dirt underneath the front porch. 0815181752aTheir new game is for Shadow to sit on the porch at the top of the stairs and Mia Bella to sit two steps down after they have finished playing. I will go to the porch to call for them and they just sit there and look at me…and won’t come in! They are just like spoiled little kids sometimes!
  5. Movie Nights: At the end of a long, hot day we enjoy sitting in our recliners and watching a good movie on TV. The dog is on the couch and the cat is usually in a lap. It feels so relaxing and we realize that this is our new home and right where we want to be.

    Second Anniversary July 2018
    Second Anniversary as Ranchers and Still Loving It!

Out with the Old, In with the New

2018 brought many changes for Charlie and I. Charlie retired at the end of January and we began our focus on our move to the Wheelers’ Country Road. We had chosen a home to build on our property and we prepared our ‘city house’ to sale. We had set up dates to put in our septic system, extend our water and electric lines, and to build our foundation. Unfortunately, we had a few delays because of the weather.The time finally came for the work to begin and Charlie spent the week working with all of the contractors. I stayed in the city getting the house there packed up and ready to sale. Imagine Charlie’s surprise when he came home at the end of the week and I told him we already had a top rate offer on our house! Our plan was completely in action!

The house was set on the foundation and, again Charlie stayed in the country to work with the contractors to finalize all of the finishing touches to the house and to go through the inspection. I wasn’t in the city this time packing – I was in New York City on a last-minute business trip! Charlie worked all week on the new house and then drove to Houston to pick me up from the airport and drive right back to the country. It was so exciting to spend that first night in our new home even if it did mean sleeping on an inflatable mattress! It was a little sad to head back to the city but we knew that there would just be a few more trips between the two.

The next weekend we moved practically all of our furniture to the new house. All we left in the city was a breakfast set, 2 office chairs, and 2 twin mattresses for the next two weeks. 18We loaded up the moving truck as 0325181311amuch as any truck could be loaded and headed up the next morning to Lovelady. This was going to be the last time to wave to the Sam Houston statue when we left Houston. Natalie, JT, Michelle, and Matt helped unload the truck. Well, not exactly. Charlie, JT, and Matt unloaded the furniture from the truck and us girls arranged the furniture on the inside of the house. We couldn’t have done this portion of the move without these four!0325181153

We were excited to have our furniture in the house and were able to host Benjamin’s birthday party. 0331181631We had lots of room inside to have lunch and birthday cake and open presents! FB_IMG_1522718544155The grandkids had fun playing outside driving the motorized vehicles. The horses were quite curious about the cars and the kids!

On Friday the 13th, we closed on our city house and packed up a second moving truck. We worked all day (and some of the night) packing, purging, and cleaning. We repeated the same process on Saturday until early afternoon. 0324181127aThen it was time to hit the road for one last trip from League City to Lovelady. Because of the construction on I-45, Charlie decided it would be better to take 59 and go through Livingston. 0324181137bSince he was driving the big moving truck, this was a great decision. It’s also a more scenic drive taking the backroads rather than the freeway! This load was mainly boxes (LOTS of boxes) so we didn’t think we needed help unloading them but we were very thankful that Natalie came over to help us. Charlie had set up a very efficient process of packing up the side by side with boxes, unloading them on the front porch, and heading back for more boxes. I would bring the boxes he dropped off into the house. Although it felt great being moved into our new home, it was discouraging to have switched from a clutter-free house with only furniture to a house stuffed with boxes. The challenge to unpack was on!

It’s taken us a while to get settled on our property. We finally have our white frame country farmhouse ready to begin our new adventure as cattle barons….well, ranchers anyway.

Coming soon – lots of new projects on the Wheeler homestead!

Me and My Shadow

20171125_173348We’ve had an unexpected addition to our family. When Charlie and I came home from the Cow Country Congress in October it was a dark and foggy night. As the headlights of the truck turned toward the front of the camper, something white popped up on deck. I jumped a bit until we both realized it was a dog sitting there greeting us. We’ve had other stray dogs and cats wander up to our deck before and they usually wander back off as quickly as they appeared. This dog was different. She seemed well mannered and fairly well cared for. We tried to ignore her that night – even though we did put a bowl of fresh water out. 20171013_192315We went to bed and woke up to terrible thunderstorms and winds from a front blowing in. In the morning we opened the camper door to find that silly dog sitting on the deck waiting for us. Apparently she stayed safe and dry protected by deck and covered by the RV. She enjoyed coffee time on the deck even though Charlie tried to ignore her.20171015_081516 Charlie took her for his morning walk to see how she acted around the cows and horses. She stayed beside Charlie and didn’t chase any of the animals in the pasture. She didn’t bark at them either – at least not until one of the cows was moving too quickly to her liking toward Charlie. That afternoon I had to “run to town” for some groceries and decided to buy some puppy food. I couldn’t let her go hungry. When I came home, Jason had shown up with dog food because Charlie had sent him a text and asked him to bring some over. The puppy was growing on Charlie!

The grand kids came over for the afternoon and the puppy fit right in playing with them. She was also extremely gentle with all of the kids.

Scarlett and the puppy bonded quickly and went wandering through the front pasture.

When we headed home to the city, we decided to take her with us after checking with all of the neighbors to see if she had wandered off from one of their properties. 20171015_183358While we were pretty sure that she had been dropped off by someone – dumped on our country road – we were still trying not to get too attached. However, we were beginning to talk about giving her a name. Charlie came up with “Shadow” because that is exactly what she was. Every step of the way, she was right beside us.  Once we were home, we took her to see if she had an identity chip but she did not. 20171020_133628We took her back to the country the next weekend but still no one claimed her. We officially had adopted a rescue pup, or Shadow had rescued us!

As you can see, Shadow has a favorite to ride in the truck! She quickly made herself right at home in the house (and on the couch). Mia Bella (matriarch cat of the house) is becoming accustomed to Shadow’s presence – perhaps not happy but tolerating her. Charlie and I are enjoying this new addition to our family. She is a definitely sweetie! She loves our trips to the property and we’ll be a perfect country dog when we move there permanently!

Next post…the latest news on our property…

Cows, Bugs & Fish…Oh My!

What do you do when your husband calls and says he’s on his way home from work so we can leave for the country? You quickly pack the necessities and plan on buying the rest later! We had debated whether to go up on Thursday after work or wait until early Friday – 20170713_175856.jpgbut Thursday won out since Charlie was able to leave work early. To add to our last-minute changes, the two oldest granddaughters decided to come with us. 20170713_202730Since we left in the afternoon, the scenery and skyline were a bit different. Once we turned off of the highway, Charlie spotted some deer on the side of the road. I missed taking a photo of them but then Gianna spotted another deer on the other side of the road. This one stopped and posed for us. 20170713_203326What a beautiful view appeared before us as we drove down the Wheeler Country Road.

Friday came early for me since it was a regular work day. The girls were up pretty early too and enjoyed the hot chocolate and biscuits and sausage for breakfast. Charlie and the girls spent the morning exploring the property and visiting with the cows while I was working away on my laptop in the camper! Being able to work remotely is great but I have to admit that I was pouting a bit also! Coffee breaks were for going out and checking on the fun and taking photos!

Later in the morning, Jason, Danielle and Raya came to visit and Gianna had to take her little cousin for a ride in the “pink car.” Raya loved it! 20170714_091942Gianna was told to go slow but I think Raya would have liked for a faster ride! We acquired the “pink car” and “four-wheeler” from neighbors whose children had outgrown them. All of the grandkids are having a great time driving them!

The main reason for this trip was for Charlie, Jason and I to attend the New Landowners Program for Houston County presented by Texas A&M. Landowner1Each month, different topics are presented that are informational for landowners. In July, the topics were property taxes, agriculture exemptions, and programs through the state of Texas available to improve your land.  While we were at the workshop, the girls were spending time with their Aunt Danielle and Cousin Raya swimming, shopping, and snacking.

On our way back to Lovelady, Danielle called Jason and told him that she had stopped by the camper to pick up something and the ground was flooded! Apparently, the hose from the water spout had ruptured and the entire front area was soaked! Charlie and Jason headed straight there and turned off the water. After grilling hamburgers at Jason and Danielle’s house, the guys headed back to town for a new hose so we would have water at the camper that night!

After such a busy day, the girls fell asleep quickly and slept late the next morning. After quietly making our coffee, Charlie and I went out to have coffee with the cows. The heifers like to have breakfast in the front pasture. 20170715_081049Charlie and #4 were having a deep discussion about the agenda for the day and 20170715_081105then she decided to move down the fence line for fresh grass. As you can see, the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.

After a bit, Maddie woke up and decided that she needed to go for a ride on the four-wheeler. After Gianna woke up, the girls asked Grandad to take them to visit with the cows.

Maddie decided that she had enough and headed back. Look at her expression! She was actually brushing gnats away – she doesn’t like bugs at all! She said that she liked the property better in the winter because she could wear her jacket and there weren’t any bugs!

20170715_173647Since Saturday was our first anniversary as landowners, we decided to grill steaks to celebrate. Natalie and Audie we able to come visit to join the celebration.


It was fun with all of us sitting outside watching the kids use their imagination while playing: from sitting on the fence, to sitting on the grapevines, to hanging little birdhouses that Gianna found while grocery shopping in town. The girls found a broken cinder block and used it as a stand to climb onto the grape vine

and then Maddie made a tightrope out of them20170715_182950and an old board. Audie was stuck with us on the deck but it won’t be long until she is running around with the rest of the big kids!


Wasn’t the sunset pretty that night? There was a cool front pushing in that created some beautiful colors in the sky.

With extra time the next morning after getting dressed for church, 20170716_085630the girls convinced us that they could drive the pink car together, play nicely, and stay clean. Don’t they look like “two little ladies on their way to Pasadena?” 20170716_095726On the way to church services in Crockett, the girls were playing the piano book. Maddie was teaching Gianna how to read the notes and play. It was so sweet watching her encourage her sister.

After church we had to make a difficult decision – what to have for Sunday lunch? We needed something the girls would like as well as the adults (Charlie, Jason and me). So we decided on Whataburger, of course! After a quick lunch, we headed back to the camper and Jason went to pick up the fishing poles and tackle boxes from his house so he and Charlie could take the girls to the pond to fish. We were in a bit of a rush since that front was quickly coming in.

Jason showed the girls how to put nightcrawlers (aka earthworms) on a hook and then how to cast a line.

After just a few minutes, Gianna’s bobber went under the water and Charlie was helping her guide the fish in. She was so excited to catch (and touch) a small catfish. After casting again, she caught another small catfish. (No, not the same one!)

Maddie didn’t have the same luck. No bites for her! In fact, she was upset that her earthworm was hurt putting it on the hook. Jason was a good uncle and showed her how to use a lure instead of live bait. However, still no luck catching a fish.

Unfortunately, the fishing trip was ended earlier than planned, when the skies started rumbling and with lightning quickly following behind. 20170716_135730We barely made it back to the camper before it started raining. The girls seemed to enjoy running and playing in the rain. So, what do you do on a rainy Sunday afternoon in a camper? You watch Princess Diaries 2, snack, and nap!

After the rain finally stopped, Jason had to head to town for some shopping for the week and we headed back to the city. Gianna helped her Grandad getting everything outside ready and Maddie helped me get the inside of the camper ready. We loaded up and Maddie read and watched videos all the way home. Gianna, on the other hand, was asleep before we even made it to Hwy 19!

OK friends, families and blog followers – It’s time for some feedback. Here is a photo of where our house is going to be. House1The trash pile will become a bonfire in the fall showing a clear view of the house site. What kind of house should we put there? Log cabin? Manufactured home? Tiny home?  What would your dream house be if you were building on your country road?



Don’t Fence Me…Out!

When we first purchased the property, there were two fenced sections which I like to call the “Back 50” and the “Lower 25.” Having a small herd of cattle on the “Lower 25” (which is where the trailer is) was entertaining until the cows became too familiar with us, the trailer and deck, and our vehicles. Let’s not even discuss the presents that they left behind for us close to the truck, trailer and deck!

It was time to build a fence that would keep the cows off of where our homestead will be. Jason and Charlie also wanted to move the gate in from the road so there would be room to pull up and open the gate  off of the road. Plans were made where to place the fences and it was determined that Jason would build the main fence and gates and the rest would be t-posts and barb wire. Jason original set the posts before his surgery in February.

For the next step in the process, he and another welder worked for several days adding the top row to the posts and starting the smaller rods below. Unfortunately, they were hindered by heavy winds and rain several days but they made up for lost time by working twice as hard!

As the work on the fence continued, Charlie decided to go and help out (aka supervise). While Jason finished the metal fence, Charlie set all 55 of the t-posts himself that will lead from the driveway to our house. He and Jason then ran the barb wire through the posts.  This area will be our “yard” where the chickens and other small animals will be. (We’re still discussing what this menagerie will consist of.)

Although Charlie sent me lots of photos during the week, I wanted to see the new fence for myself. The work was very impressive! With these fences up now, it is easier to visualize where our house will be placed. 26554The plans are to place it to the left of the fence in this photo and facing the creek.  Things are beginning to move more quickly as we prepare for Charlie’s retirement and our move to Lovelady.

After working so hard, Charlie and Jason enjoyed some much deserved free time on Friday and Saturday. Natalie and Audie came over to spend the night with us and let the babies have cousin time.

Charlie and Jason had a very productive week followed by some great family time.

The cows are not happy with the new fence and their loss of freedom. They are spending lots of time close to the fence line! They definitely didn’t want to be fenced in!

The place is really shaping up to look like what a ranch should look like! The next big question: What color will we paint the fence? Suggestions?